Painful, but motivating? I’ve
heard many people say that sometimes hearing the truth—even from
strangers—can be painful, but motivating. Oftentimes people get so
caught up with work, kids, stress and life that their personal health
becomes the last thing they think about. Exercise, unfortunately, is the
first thing that falls off of a daily routine when people are in a time
crunch. When that happens it can take a jolt from an outsider to shine a
light on their daily decisions and the toll they take on our health.
Is there a fine line? On
the other hand, there’s a big difference between a friend encouraging
you to exercise or keep food journals together versus a random email or
online post from a stranger. It’s inappropriate to go around making
judgments about people without knowing their story—or more
importantly—them. It’s great to encourage family and friends to make
healthy choices, as long as it is done in a respectful and encouraging
way. It's never productive to only criticize.
Positive, but tough. I
am wired toward the positive and have been since I was a kid. Glass
half full has been my motto forever and maybe I’m overly optimistic at
times. But, I believe you can attract more bees with honey. Having a
positive mindset doesn’t mean I let people off the hook. I am positive
and tough. People should be tough on themselves and get honest about the
choices they are making and how those choices are impacting their
health. I think people should take responsibility for their health. I am
not into excuses. As a fitness trainer, there’s a balance to strike
between encouragement and being tough. I do believe that those four
words, “I don’t have time” are worthless and I tell my clients to switch
those four words to this: “I choose to do something else I feel is more
important.” Ouch! It’s a bit of a reality check. Are your health and
happiness not important? I have always believed that in order for people
to keep a habit, they have to enjoy it.
What motivates you to live a healthier
life? Are you the kind of person who would rather have a trainer
screaming in your face or someone smiling and encouraging you?
Comment and let us know!
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