 A few weeks ago, TV broadcaster Jennifer Livingston
 in LaCrosse, Wis. defended herself against Mike Thompson, a viewer who 
criticized her for not being a responsible role model as an overweight, 
public personality. He asked her to reconsider her responsibility to 
promote a healthy lifestyle. Livingston made a public response where she
 said she’s more than a number on a scale, and that Mr. Thompson was out
 of line with his email. While the dust has settled on that exchange, 
the story brings to the surface a great weight loss question for 
discussion: What’s more motivating, positive or negative feedback?
A few weeks ago, TV broadcaster Jennifer Livingston
 in LaCrosse, Wis. defended herself against Mike Thompson, a viewer who 
criticized her for not being a responsible role model as an overweight, 
public personality. He asked her to reconsider her responsibility to 
promote a healthy lifestyle. Livingston made a public response where she
 said she’s more than a number on a scale, and that Mr. Thompson was out
 of line with his email. While the dust has settled on that exchange, 
the story brings to the surface a great weight loss question for 
discussion: What’s more motivating, positive or negative feedback?
            
Painful, but motivating? I’ve
 heard many people say that sometimes hearing the truth—even from 
strangers—can be painful, but motivating. Oftentimes people get so 
caught up with work, kids, stress and life that their personal health 
becomes the last thing they think about. Exercise, unfortunately, is the
 first thing that falls off of a daily routine when people are in a time
 crunch. When that happens it can take a jolt from an outsider to shine a
 light on their daily decisions and the toll they take on our health.
Is there a fine line? On
 the other hand, there’s a big difference between a friend encouraging 
you to exercise or keep food journals together versus a random email or 
online post from a stranger. It’s inappropriate to go around making 
judgments about people without knowing their story—or more 
importantly—them. It’s great to encourage family and friends to make 
healthy choices, as long as it is done in a respectful and encouraging 
way. It's never productive to only criticize.
Positive, but tough. I
 am wired toward the positive and have been since I was a kid.  Glass 
half full has been my motto forever and maybe I’m overly optimistic at 
times.  But, I believe you can attract more bees with honey. Having a 
positive mindset doesn’t mean I let people off the hook. I am positive 
and tough. People should be tough on themselves and get honest about the
 choices they are making and how those choices are impacting their 
health. I think people should take responsibility for their health. I am
 not into excuses. As a fitness trainer, there’s a balance to strike 
between encouragement and being tough. I do believe that those four 
words, “I don’t have time” are worthless and I tell my clients to switch
 those four words to this: “I choose to do something else I feel is more
 important.” Ouch! It’s a bit of a reality check. Are your health and 
happiness not important? I have always believed that in order for people
 to keep a habit, they have to enjoy it.
What motivates you to live a healthier 
life? Are you the kind of person who would rather have a trainer 
screaming in your face or someone smiling and encouraging you?
Comment and let us know! 
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volleyball at the beach, testing the strength of a carabiner on the side
 of a cliff, or jogging with your dog. But, there will undoubtedly be at
 least a few days this winter season when Jack Frost’s arctic 
temperature or dangerous, icy terrain will force even the most stalwart 
outdoor exercise enthusiast inside. That’s no reason to hibernate. Beat 
the winter blues (and blahs) with these brrrrrilliant tips from Life 
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